FRIDAY NOVEMBER 16, 2012

This past Sunday, Faith In America Founder Mitchell Gold was recognized for his work by the Interfaith Alliance at its 15th Annual Walter Cronkite Faith & Freedom gala in New York City. I hope you will take a few moments to watch this video introduction, listen to the audio clip and forward this email to someone you know who would like to join this groundbreaking and exciting work.

Mitchell's vision for Faith in America in early 2005 was profound but at the same time it contained a very simple premise – the harm caused to gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people by misguided religious teaching must end. Such teaching simply can no longer be offered any respectability and neither can those who misuse such teaching as a tool of oppression.

A key component of the organization's effort would be to develop a message that would impact the minds of those people who consciously or unconsciously allow such teaching to prevent them from seeing the harm that has been done – harm that still today is being done in families and communities all across America. Another premise on which the organization's messaging was developed is that it doesn't take a theological degree to get people to understand that harm – a simple history lesson indeed can be very powerful and effective.

Mitchell's "History Lesson" has been one of the most important aspects of Faith In America's effectiveness in terms of communicating to people how misguided religious teaching at times in this country's past has been a corrosive agent working within society. We have encouraged others to put that lesson to work in the hearts and minds of people around them. And we are seeing it used more and more. The article below is just one recent example as it relates to some of the recent marriage equality victories.

The greatest task before us today is getting this message to those who need to hear it the most. One of Faith In America's 2012 projects was to take the effective messaging the organization has developed and put it in a social media format that can be shared with those who need to hear it. I hope you will visit FaithandEquality.org and share this new resource with someone you know who needs to hear it. It may be an LGBT youth yearning to hear the powerful voice of an affirming faith leader or it may be a mother who desparately needs to hear the words of Jane Clementi. Share Rev. Susan Smith's "history lesson."

As Chely Wright mentions in her remarks in the audio link above, recognition dinners and preaching to the choir is not what Faith in America's work is about. It's about creating dialogue with people who have closed their minds and hearts to embracing a person's humanity because they have been taught that is the correct moral response when it comes to the LGBT community or LGBT individuals. It's about creating affirming voices in the life of a young boy or girl who are denied an opportunity to hear such voices.

I know the greatest honor for Mitchell would be if you will help us touch a life or a family in a positive way. Visit FaithandEquality.org, subscribe to the website for updates and share this resource and the updates with those who you know need to change.

Let's not forget as we celebrate progress that there are many families in most every state in which misguided religious treaching is closing hearts and minds – and making life miserable for gay or lesbian youth.


On gay marriage, voters got it right
even if the church gets it wrong
        
By C.S. Pearce
Religion News Service

Last week, citizens in Maine, Maryland and Washington state made history with their votes to legalize same-sex marriage. Minnesotans, too, rejected a constitutional amendment that would have banned gay marriage. Since 1998, 32 states have had marriage equality measures on their ballots, and voters have rejected every one of them. The six states that have legalized gay marriage did it through legislation or by court order.

The voters who passed these history-making resolutions on Election Day did so despite significant opposition from Christian churches and institutions that believe their faith requires them to oppose marriage equality for gay and lesbian couples. Even though an exceptionally strong biblical case can be made in favor of gay civil rights, these groups generally dismiss such arguments because of tradition.

“If this 'new’ interpretation of the Bible is true,” as one young evangelical asked me, “how could Christians have had it wrong all these years?”

That’s actually a pretty easy question to answer. All too often, getting it wrong has also been a Christian tradition.

Throughout the ages, various Christian beliefs have been the basis for institutions and actions that were anything but Christian. The Inquisition and the Crusades come immediately to mind, but more recent history also has its share.

For many centuries, “good” Christians used the Bible as a basis to deny women basic human and civil rights, to imply that handicapped people must have sinned to deserve their disability, and to justify anti-Semitism.

It wasn’t until the late 1700s that Christians began to seriously question the morality of slavery. When the U.S. finally abolished slavery in 1865, many sincere Christians still believed it was a valid state for black people, and found biblical “justifications” to back it up. As a result, some Christian colleges in the South continued to bar people of color from attending through the 1960s and 1970s.

Interracial dating, too, was considered taboo for many years because of certain Bible passages. In 1967, the U.S. Supreme Court finally struck down the last of the state laws banning interracial marriage, but it wasn’t until March 2000 that the “biblically faithful” Bob Jones University lifted its ban against interracial dating.

History has shown that harmful beliefs will continue until people begin to question them, even in the church. And the questioning is always controversial at first.

We didn’t begin questioning society’s prejudice against homosexuality until UCLA psychologist Evelyn Hooker first began examining it in the 1950s. In 1957, Hooker’s research concluded that “homosexuals were not inherently abnormal and that there was no difference between homosexual and heterosexual men in terms of pathology.”

There have been many studies since then, and in 1973, the American Psychiatric Association deleted homosexuality from the list of sexual deviances. All major professional psychiatric, medical, psychological and educational organizations have followed suit, based on myriad studies that have confirmed Hooker’s initial findings for gay individuals, and more recently, gay families.Traditions die hard, however, especially in religion. There are only three verses that deal with homosexuality in the New Testament, and many New Testament Greek scholars would argue that those three verses don’t deal with homosexuality as we define it today, but rather with tmple prostitution and other abuses. Unfortunately, because of dated translations, some versions of the Bible imply otherwise.

Furthermore, although Jesus must have been familiar with the various Greco-Roman and Jewish beliefs about homosexuality, he never addressed the subject. But he loved and accepted everyone, especially the oppressed and those whom the religious establishment considered unclean. When he made his statement about a man and a woman becoming one flesh in marriage, he was addressing heartless divorce traditions that excessively penalized women. He wasn’t saying anything about same-sex marriage, which didn’t exist at the time.

An ever-growing number of Christian leaders and laypeople now believe that traditional beliefs about homosexuality are hurting the church, especially its most vulnerable members: young gay people who are convinced that their very essence is sinful. Furthermore, they can no longer support unjust laws that penalize committed gay couples, especially those with children. In fact, a 2011 survey from the Pew Forum on Religion & Public Life found that more than half of mainline Protestants and Catholics now favor legalizing same-sex marriage.

As history has shown, when traditional beliefs are clearly causing hurt instead of blessing, it’s worth struggling with the issues involved in order to come out on the other side. If today’s traditionalist Christians thoughtfully and prayerfully examine the evidence, it’s only a matter of time before they unite with the rest of us to join Washington, Maine, Maryland and Minnesota, and come down on the right side of history once again.

(C.S. Pearce is the author of “This We Believe: The Christian Case for Gay Civil Rights,” and the director of media relations for Claremont School of Theology and Claremont Lincoln University.)

Washington Post

Middle East attacks show the desperate need for interfaith understanding

 

The Rev. Dr. Welton C. Gaddy is president of the Interfaith Alliance, located in D.C., and a contributor  to The Washington Post's local faith leader network.

 

Each year on the anniversary of Sept. 11, 2001 I pause and think about how much the world has changed since that heartbreaking day, and not so much for the better. This sentiment was illustrated with tragic clarity this year as I watched attacks on the American Embassy in Cairo, Egypt, and the U.S. Consulate in Benghazi, Libya . The results were immediately the death of the U.S Ambassador to Libya and three members of his staff, new protests in Yemen, and increased tension between the U.S. and the Arab world.

 

Conflicting reports suggest these riots were a reaction to a despicable anti-Muslim video, produced here in the United States and circulated on YouTube, or a meticulously planned attack by al-Qaeda that used the riots as cover. Either catalyst only demonstrates with greater clarity how much work is left to be done before we fully eradicate the prejudice and heal from the wounds inflicted 11 years ago.

 

Violence and hatred cannot be the basis for dialogue between the U.S. and the Arab world. Improved relations will be difficult until that is understood. At the same time, the anti-Muslim bigotry that has become all too pervasive in the United States is only amplified when it reaches the rest of the world and runs the risk of being perceived as the view of all Americans. That misconception is then used by those who seek to target Americans as a means of stirring up hatred among their followers.

The producers of this hateful anti-Muslim film knew full well that it would provoke anger in Muslim community.  Make no mistake about it; those that used this crude film to stoke the uprising also knew they were inflaming the passions on the street. It is the world we live in that anyone with a video camera, a Facebook page and some time can have as much impact as a broadcast network.

 

We saw what hate brought on Sept. 11, 2001 and we saw what hate looked like when Terry Jones threatened to burn a Koran last year. We saw what hate leads to with the shooting at the Sikh Gurdwarain Wisconsin earlier this year. And we saw the result of that hate with this week’s tragedy.

 

The hateful film used as justification – or cover – for this violence is of little relevance to the vast majority of Americans and certainly does not represent the views of the U.S. government. It is no excuse for this week’s violence, but Libya is a nation that is emerging from years of dictatorship where the mere existence of a film can be mistakenly understood to have the endorsement of the state in which it was created. Those responsible for these deaths must be brought to justice, and going forward, anger should be expressed through means that lead to productive dialogue not deaths

 

 The next time we mark the anniversary of Sept. 11, I hope we are able to look back at the death of Ambassador J. Christopher Stevens and his colleagues as a turning point in our interactions with one another. In the meantime, we will do well to intensify our efforts to promote respect for religious freedom and strive for interreligious understanding every day, which will helpcreate a new context for the inevitable misstatement or offensive remark that provides a framework within which the wrong quickly can be resolved.

Civility Materials for Elul/High Holy Days


August 28, 2012

JCPA Board and Member Agencies Civility and Rabbinic Letter Signatories

Rabbi Steve Gutow, President, JCPA
Rabbi Amy Eilberg, Chair, Working Group on Sacred Text


Once again, as the Yamim Nora'im/High Holy Days approach, our liturgy and personal practice powerfully call our attention to issues of human communication. For example, the themes of listening and seeing are woven throughout the Torah readings on the chagim, and the vidui/confessional prayers focus intensively on the uses and misuses of speech in our lives. This sacred season impels us to consider how we speak and listen–in our relationships and in community–as a central part of our work of teshuva/repentance. In addition, this year we find ourselves in the midst of a campaign season that many consider to be particularly contentious.  In the public square, speech is too often raucous and disrespectful, and real listening rare.

As we enter Elul, we again share with you materials on civility and robust, respectful conversation, gathered as part of the Jewish Council for Public Affairs Campaign for Civility (www.jewishpublicaffairs.org/civility). Linked below is a collection of sermons and articles that we hope you may be able to use in your synagogue and community work during the High Holy Day season. We imagine the study sheets as excellent material for Yom Kippur afternoon study sessions.  We suggest you consider excerpting pieces of the texts in your intra-communal communication, addressing the crisis of incivility in the Jewish community and in American public life.

1. Sermons and Essays on Civility
. Please consider giving your own High Holiday derasha  on issues of civil discourse, or encourage your rabbi to do so.  We offer these sermons and articles, several from the San Francisco Year of Civil Discourse initiative, as samples to inspire your own creative wrestling with the issues.

Rosh Hashanah Words
Rabbi Melanie Aron

More Than Meets the Eye
Rabbi Dovid Cohen

Hillel, Israel, Palestine & Me

Rabbi David J. Cooper

Reconsidering the Israel Narrative, Renarrating How We Speak, Listen and Act in Community
Rabbi David J. Cooper

This Is Your Brain on Conflict: The Problem of Polarized Communication
Rabbi Amy Eilberg 

On Civility
Rabbi Arnold Eisen

Rosh Hashanah – Civil Discourse in America, Israel and Our Congregation
Rabbi Nat Ezray

Passionate, Compassionate Dialogue

Rabbi Shelly Lewis

Idolatry Against Humans
Rabbi Yehiel Poupko

Ahavat Hinam
Rabbi Daniel Pressman

Combating Delegitimization Requires A Big Tent

John Ruskay

Kol Nidre
Rabbi Mark Schiftan

Can Civility Be the Answer to Polarization?

Eyal Rabinovitch and Rabbi Melissa Weintraub   

A Synagogue of Dialogue
Rabbi Peretz Wolf-Prusan
 
2. Jewish Sacred Texts on Civility
for study sessions during the holiday season can be found at this link. (With special thanks to Rabbi Sheldon Lewis and the Year of Civil Discourse Initiative, a project of the San Francisco JCRC, Jewish Community Federation, Board of Rabbis, and East Bay Federation).

3. Three Brief Study Sheets, suitable for study sessions, first published as full-page ads in the "J Weekly," the Jewish newspaper of the San Francisco Bay Area.  Each one includes a brief, evocative classical text on the theme of civility in the center of the page, with beautiful contemporary interpretations, arranged like a page of gemara. They are posted at http://tinyurl.com/8q9bssr  The ads are from the Start of the Campaign, Pesach, and Tisha B'av.

4. Other resources can be found at:

Encounter
www.encounterprograms.org/resources

Jewish Council on Public Affairs Campaign for Civility
http://engage.jewishpublicaffairs.org/p/salsa/web/blog/public/?blog_KEY=258

Jewish Dialogue Group
http://jewishdialogue.org/resources/guidebook

San Francisco Year of Civil Discourse
http://jcrc.org/ycd_resources.htm

We plan to bring you more such materials in the near future, supporting an ever-growing civility movement within the Jewish community.  Please let us know if you have suggestions for formats and/or categories of text materials that you would find helpful in your own work on this issue. (Please respond to Rabbi Amy Eilberg at rebamy@eilberg.com, with copies to Ethan Felson at efelson@thejcpa.org.)

Wishing you a rich and not-too-hectic month of Elul, and with early prayers for a year of blessing and peace.